The ending of chaos will not come if we love our girlfriend but at the same time treat our coworkers disrespectfully, or if we love our brother but hate our neighbor who has more than us or is better looking than us or seems to get all of things that we believe we deserve.
No, we don’t need to like and be liked by everyone, but we do need to be able to show human dignity to everyone, even if we don’t agree with them and even if we feel we have less than they have.