When we look at someone and we don’t like him or her, we need to understand that there is a reason for our dislike. If we look deeply into that person’s personality, we will find that the aspect we dislike is simply a mirror of a trait that we ourselves possess.
Every single person in our life is there for a purpose. If there is someone in our life that we naturally love and admire, then we can learn from him or her. Equally, though, when we encounter a challenging relationship, we can use it proactively as an opportunity to grow.