When we like someone, he or she can raise hell and we’ll just say, “Isn’t that sweet?” But when we don’t like someone or that person rubs us the wrong way, then the color of their shirt, the way they walk, the way they speak- even the most minor of quirks - can make us cringe from them. The reason for this is that our perspective is internal and may have little to do with the true nature of the other person
To avoid doing this, we must consistently plead with the Creator to open our mind to see things as they are…without being colored by our prejudices, assumptions, and calculations.