Whatever we want to receive from the Light of the Creator is what we need to extend to others.
If we want the Light to be open and giving with us, then we need to be open and giving with others. If we need kindness, then we need to show kindness. If we want love, then we need to bestow love. If we need to be fulfilled, then we need see how we can fulfill others.
The universe is a mirror reflecting back to us what we put out there.